How many of us suddenly feel bored by our relationships after a while, not because we love our partners any less but because things are not as interesting and exciting as they used to be. Normally after getting each other people tend to relax and do not do the things they did in order to get that partner in the first palce.
Here are a few tips to help you keep the fire burning in your relo;
1. Send Romantic Text Messages
When you’re apart, send romantic text messages to one another. This can build anticipation for when you’ll see each other again. Use texting to send short messages of love, admiration, and encouragement. Don’t be afraid to send some sexy text messages to spice things up. It is a simple and easy way to keep the romance in your relationship.
2. Keep the Element of Surprise Alive
Surprise your partner from time to time in a variety of ways. Arrive home with a small gift, cook your partner’s favorite meal or book a surprise weekend getaway. These types of surprises will keep the excitement alive and prevent you from getting stuck in a relationship rut.
3. Establish Goals Together
Create some goals that you can work on together as a couple. It may include a financial goal, such as saving a certain amount of money to go to on a vacation. Or, it could include a fitness goal, such as running a half marathon together. Working toward your goals can help you feel like a team and gives you new things to talk about and do together.
4. Greet One Another with Excitement
The way you greet one another after being apart can set the tone for the rest of the day. Changing small habits, such as the way you greet your partner when they get home, can be key to a relationship. Greet your partner at the door with a hug and a kiss and express your joy at being together again. This can start things off on the right foot and set you on the path to reconnect after being apart.
5. Discuss Your Hopes and Dreams
It’s likely that when you were dating, you talked about your hopes and dreams. However, over time, those sorts of conversations can fall by the wayside. Set time aside to continue to discuss your dreams for the future and support one another in making those dreams a reality.
6. Travel and make new memories
Studies show that couples who make new memories and travel together create a tight bond with each other. They tend to stay together for a long time because having those special experiences together brings you close. Traveling doesn’t have to mean Paris or a tropical rain forest, although that would be awesome. It can simply be going camping on the weekend. Just the two of you. You don’t know how to build a fire or you’ve never set up a tent. You both figure it out together, though. Those are the things that keep your relationship sweet and new.