Revenge in a relationship isn’t worth it!
1.Revenge is a sign of weakness
Revenge is a sign of personal weakness. When you are being vindictive, this means that you are unable to conquer your own anger and handle the situation constructively. Instead,Β you let it control your mind and your actions way more than you should.Β Sometimes showing this weakness is not a big deal. However, at other times, the consequences of inability to control yourself are quite severe.
2.Verbal revenge is worser; words can be the worst pain ever!
Trying to verbally hurt the other person never brings you any closer to resolving your conflict or putting an end to a fight. If anything, it ignites a bigger fight and distances you further form each other than before, especially if during your fight you start bringing things up that are completely irrelevant to your current conflict or misunderstanding.
3.Everything might turn against you
Maybe you really believe he deserves some humiliation, but some crazy revenge schemes can go way further than you might have intended.
4.You are killing your own health
It is a truth universally acknowledged that if youβre a human being dating other human beings,sooner or later someone is going to screw you over. (And not always in a good way! lol). Plotting revenge might feel like temporary relief from crying on the kitchen floor. However, all that negative energy surging through your body is AWFUL for your health. Payback can weaken your immune system, raise your heart rate and cause stressful breakouts. Bitterness ainβt cute.
5.You are wasting your own time
Whether you know it or not, youβve got WAY better ways to spend your time than on this chump. You never he/she may not be bothered by the revenge.
