10 Ways To Spot A Gold Digger!
Well, it is considered a mandate that a boyfriend is the one who has to take a lead onΒ things like date nights, taking your girl to places like Sky Lounge, weekends away in Kasane, buying of gifts and stuff. Granted, it is romantic and manly, but there is a thin line between, providing and being used. Consider the following points to check if she is in it for the money or not, the points can also work for girls who find themselves in similar situations.
There’s nothing wrong with a person being concerned about your financial stability. The difference between a gold digger and someone who values your role as a provider is that the gold digger would deride and perhaps leave you if you lost your ability to provide for them financially.
2. Gold Diggers Want You To PayΒ Their Bills.
They know that you don’t want to see them get an eviction notice, or get their car repossessed, and you’re a good person who’s in a position to help. But there’s a difference between a gold digger and someone who’s just fallen on bad times.
3. When They Want Expensive Gifts.Β
When you give them something sentimental that doesnβt cost much but reminds you of a special time together, or you write them Β a heartfelt poem, they might give you a blank look or turn her nose up at the gift.
Β 4. TheyΒ Look For A Sense Of Entitlement.
Gold diggers feel that they deserve to be treated well, and that includes knowing that someone is willing to spend money on them. Maybe it’s because they had a bad childhood or relationship, and they feel they deserve to be happy.
5. Her Circle Of Friends Are Gold Diggers.
As the saying goes, you can tell a lot about someone from the company they keep. If your girlfriendΒ spends time with other women who seem to show signs of being gold diggers, or youβve heard gossip about their behavior, chances are she could well be influenced by their tendencies. Itβs a good idea to keep your hand on your wallet.
Β 6. She Is Curious About Your Financial Status.
Your girlfriend has been interested in hearing about your career andΒ financialΒ status from day one. Though you might mistake her curiosity for interest in your life, sheβs probably sussing you out to ensure you will be able to pay her way through the relationship.
7. She Never Pays.
When the bill arrives at the table, she pretends it doesnβt exist. Itβs always up to you to settle it, and she never even offers to pay or go 50/50. Basically, a sheΒ takes for granted that youβre a gentleman, and when it comes to shelling out money, youβre the one for the job.
8. Hates Other Women.
Always dressed in the finest clothing and looking gorgeous, the gold digger flaunts the fact that she likes to take care of herself. But itβs with other peopleβs money, of course. Since she places emphasis on her looks, she is wary of and competitive with other womenΒ and dislikes their company if they are just as gorgeous or as status-endowed as she is. Clearly, her behavior is caught up in insecurity.
9. She Uses Her Looks For Short-Term Gain.
She has to get to the front of the line at clubs, so she pops open a button on her cleavage-exposing top. The gold digger uses her looks for short-term gain, and she probably charmed you that way too. But she doesnβt use her looks for long-term goals, simply because she doesnβt have any.
10. She Climbs Up Using Boyfriends.
Instead of climbingΒ theΒ corporateΒ ladder, the gold digger straps on her skillsΒ to use boyfriends as stepping stones. In fact, looking back on her relationship history, youβre likely to find that each guy sheβs dated has been richer than the last. Youβre her promotion to a more fabulous, expensive life