No matter how good a person you are, you are bound to have someone who does not really like you. We don’t live in a perfect world, hence it makes a lot of sense that not everyone will love you. In such a world you will make enemies just as you make friends and there will be people who hate you as much as their will be people who love you. Some of the following reasons will help you understand why some people do not like you as much as you would have wanted them to.
1. Because They Want To Be Like You.
2. You Remind Them Of Their Failures.
Hatred is an emotion that the mind uses to keep a person safe by keeping him away from people who might harm him. If you are successful at anything then some people might feel like losers when they see you and as a result hatred kicks in to protect them. In other words you might be hated because you are really good.
3. They Think Your Life Is Great.
4. They Are Helpless.
5. You Remind Them Of What They Lack.
All humans want to be the best among their friends but psychologically unstable ones will hate those who are better than them at anything. You get better grades? You have more friends? You look a bit better? You have a better body? You have a better job? Then you might be hated for that.
6. Because They Feel Worthless.
Brave people set goals and achieve them. Cowards run away from big goals then seek cheap victories to feel good about themselves. Some examples of cheap victories are gossiping, putting someone down or bullying someone. All of these actions help a person who already feels worthless to feel a bit better.
7. They Don’t Feel Safe Around You.
People dislike the ones they don’t feel safe around. Those who suffer from anxiety or those who are too afraid to mingle with new people might dislike strangers just because they don’t feel safe around them. They prefer a small circle of friends that gives them the safety they need.